Still cannot believe this after 24 hours.
My abusive ex had the cheek to ask me to friend him on Facebook.
What the ******????!!!! It's been 18.5 years since our divorce!!!
And I'm remarried--- my husband and I have been together 16 years...guess that doesn't mean much to Mr Thick Cranium. It means, you dummy, that I don't socialize with my exes? Got it? I doubt it...
This man, who still owes me $2,000 for stealing my credit card and using it without my permission, lied to his mother telling her I must have taken her mother's wedding band (Um, who had the job at the time?), treated me like crap during our marriage telling me that his drunken abuses and name calling "weren't that bad", took a rental car that I paid for and drove it drunk thereby leaving me open to Lord knows what in the court of law or Heaven forbid, kill someone....would not sleep with me in our bed because he'd pass out at 3-5 o'clock in the morning, would not help me pay most of the bills, and the ones he did pay it was like pulling teeth.
Did you also know he wrote fraudulent checks, forged my name on one of them, made me empty my bank account with a minus balance so HE wouldn't have to go to jail (but it was okay for me.) You may think I'm stupid for doing this, but trust me I was BULLIED into it and he would not leave me in peace until I did.
He slept with other women during our dating time and during our marriage. (Where else could he be after 2:30 in the morning? And...I'd find women's phone numbers in his pockets) Nearly burned the house down because he passed out cooking something on the stove....
Oh, hahaha....he used to call me stupid all the time too!
Gee, I'm just supposed to forget about all of that "little stuff" and let him back into my life, huh? Heh. Hell will freeze over first before that would ever happen.
But it's also taught me I'm still THAT angry with him after all of these years. I've forgiven him, or at least I am working on forgiving me...but that doesn't have to make me a doormat. And he was like that....he would do something so bad, so sociopathic, narcissistic....and we all were just supposed to forgive and forget. I'll never forget that stupid grin on his face for the rest of my life, Lord forgive me.
He STILL doesn't get it. I wonder if he EVER will. STAY OUT OF MY LIFE AND MOVE ON, R**K! I HAVE. (BTW, surprised you're still alive after drinking almost a twelve pack of beer a night plus a few shots when you could afford them--- congratulations. On any liver transplant lists, I wonder?)
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